We live in a world that often tells us that we aren't good enough, that we need to fix ourselves; and that to be happy is going to cost money. Yeah we all want to be happy, and sometimes that means more money so we can purchase goods, and services, that improve our lives; but things have gotten to a point where many people are so discontented from a sense of happiness because they have given all of their power away to giant, corporate, interests. Our sexuality especially, has been hijacked, shamed, hidden, and sold back to us.
This has been brought to our attention by women's advocates, pointing out how women, in contrast to runway models are made to feel fat, when they are perfectly healthy and normal. The effect of the advertising industry, and now social media, means that many people spend more money than they have, trying to make themselves feel good by buying things including cosmetic surgery. Ironically, working harder to make more money, and then spending all of our money on things and procedures (which never will really make us happy), only leads us further into misery. Here's me telling you to shop less, on a retail web site!
I'm not against things, or buying, or money; I love clothes, and art, and fashion and all that! But how conscious are we of our choices. Thankfully there is a push for shoppers and manufacturers to become more ethical in their choices. We vote with our dollars. Are we buying into corporate propaganda, or are we making a statement? What statement are we making with our choices?
This project is not about getting rich; it's about making a controversial, progressive, statement: DICKS ARE MAGIC! I believe that art is more powerful than politics. My ultimate goal is to teach men to love themselves. The point I'm trying to get to here is PLEASE, DON'T GET COSMETIC SURGERY FOR YOUR DICK! Unless there's something seriously wrong with your penis, even if its a micro penis, please, just learn to love it! I promise you, it is totally adequate in giving you tremendous pleasure IF YOU LEARN HOW TO USE IT! Part of that, a big part of that is loving it as it is! Even if you're fem, love your penis!
A guy's dick is so connected with his sense of self confidence. Why that is I will not get into here, but it's what many guys will clearly say. The majority of women will say that a big penis is not important to them. If a guy is attentive and caring and communicative he could probably have a nub and most women will be content. Because for most women it's not all about the dick. When it comes to gay relationships that may be different, but there we are dealing with something deeper and more self reflective.
I believe that if we're looking for a loving relationship, dick size will not be an issue. If a person can't love you because of the size of your penis, then you'd do better to look elsewhere; this is not someone who will make for a happy relationship. I believe that the fetishization of big dicks in the gay community is because of a desire for confidence where it is lacking. Low self esteem is endemic in the gay community, and it's not because of small penises; it's because of internalized homophobia.
Let me say this. I admire big dicks as fascinating varieties of nature. There is something compelling about them for sure. But porn has given us an unhealthy perception of what is realistic; not so different from what fashion magazines have done to women.
The absolute truth is, that if you love your dick, and learn its magic through reverence, through mindful masturbation and lovemaking, you will realize that size does not matter. It has the same number of nerve endings as a big dick. It's completely beautiful as it is; and if it doesn't look beautiful to you, it may not be about the size, but about the health of it. It is a reflection of your overall well being. You might be surprised by how it changes when you change your overall health, and attitude. Please watch this short documentary and witness the sad state of affairs where guys pay $20,000 to get an inch more, to improve their self esteem. But does it? Now they have a weird, fatty, scarred dick. That is not pretty in my mind; to me that's very ugly. What is beautiful is unconditional positive regard for ones body as it is. If we start from a place of self love, we will be guided to make choices that are in line with natural well being; and guess what, it doesn't cost a thing.